“A lot of times, the problem is not necessarily technical. It’s a human problem. Just figuring out the human dynamics removes the obstacles and makes the project flow.” – Mukhtar Kadiri
Mukhtar was brought into a healthcare software project where the team couldn’t hit any of their milestones. The product manager, engineering team, and head of engineering were supposed to be self-sustaining, but chaos reigned. What Mukhtar found through his one-on-ones was a pattern of finger-pointing — product blaming engineering, engineering blaming product.
Then, in one meeting, the head of engineering exploded. He burst out yelling in front of the entire team. In a private conversation afterward, Mukhtar discovered the root cause: this brilliant architect was a bottleneck. Everyone depended on him, he was stretched across multiple projects, and the frustration had been building with no outlet.
Mukhtar’s approach was direct — “Your name is on this project. Yelling is not going to help.” But the real insight came from what happened next. Once the head of engineering started controlling his outbursts, team morale improved almost immediately.
Combined with basic structure — regular meetings, low-hanging-fruit milestones — the team built momentum and eventually became self-sufficient. The lesson? No matter how technical the challenge looks, it’s always a people problem. And one-on-ones aren’t just status updates — they’re pressure valves that prevent public explosions that can cause irreparable damage to team morale.
Self-reflection Question: Is there someone on your team who’s carrying too much load in silence — and what would it take for you to create a safe space where they can express that frustration before it boils over?
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Mukhtar recommends the HBR Project Management Handbook because, as he puts it, “A lot of project management books, I can read them and it’s almost like I’m not really learning anything new. But this one had substance.” After stumbling into project management and leading projects for seven years before even pursuing his PMP, Mukhtar found that most PM books simply codified what he already knew from experience.
The HBR handbook was different — it offered breadth, depth, and fresh approaches to common project management challenges. He also recommends the Rita Mulcahy PMP Exam Prep for those preparing for PMP certification, noting that studying for the exam crystallized frameworks around things he had been doing instinctively.
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About Mukhtar Kadiri
Mukhtar Kadiri is a PM career coach with 15+ years in project management. He specializes in helping project and program managers land $100–300K roles. He’s been named the #1 PM in Canada. He also has a LinkedIn following of 67K+ professionals. He shares practical insights for FREE on LinkedIn, where he talks about job search, career growth, and thriving as a PM.
You can link with Mukhtar Kadiri on LinkedIn.
