Karim Harbott: You Can’t Make a Flower Grow Faster—The Oblique Approach to Shaping Culture

“How can I make a flower grow faster? Culture is a product of the behaviors of people in the system.” – Karim Harbott

For Karim, one of the biggest challenges—and enablers—in his current work is creating a supporting culture. After years of learning what doesn’t work, he’s come to understand that culture isn’t something you can force or mandate. Like trying to make a flower grow faster by pulling on it, direct approaches to culture change often backfire.

Instead, Karim uses what he calls the “oblique approach”—changing culture indirectly by adjusting the five levers: leadership behaviors, organizational structure, incentives, metrics, and systems. Leadership behaviors are particularly crucial.

When leaders step back and encourage ownership rather than micromanaging, teams transform. Incentives have a huge impact on how teams work—align them poorly, and you’ll get exactly the wrong behaviors.

Karim references Team of Teams by General Stanley McChrystal, which demonstrates how changing organizational structure and leadership philosophy can unlock extraordinary performance. He also uses the Competing Values Framework to help leaders understand different cultural orientations and their tradeoffs. But the most important lesson? There are always unexpected consequences. Culture change requires patience, experimentation, and a willingness to observe how the system responds. You can’t force a flower to grow, but you can create the conditions where it thrives.

Self-reflection Question: Are you trying to change your organization’s culture directly, or are you adjusting the conditions that shape behavior?

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About Karim Harbott

Karim Harbott

Karim is a consultant, trainer, and non-executive director. He bridges the gap between strategy, business agility, digital transformation, innovation, AI, and board governance. He is a Certified Scrum Trainer, and is the author of The 6 Enablers of Business Agility.

You can link with Karim Harbott on LinkedIn.

BONUS: Beyond Process, How Psychology is Reshaping Modern Leadership with Ari-Pekka Skarp

In this BONUS episode, we dive deep into the evolving landscape of Agile leadership with Ari-Pekka Skarp, an experienced Agile Coach, Psychotherapist, and Organizational Psychologist. Drawing from his unique blend of expertise, Ari-Pekka shares his lessons learned on how leadership has transformed over the past decades and what the future holds for Agile organizations.

The Evolution of Agile and Social Complexity

“We replaced authority with collaboration, this was revolutionary.”

The journey of Agile adoption over the past 16 years has been marked by two significant developments: technological advancement and increasing social complexity. Ari-Pekka reflects on how Scrum introduced a revolutionary “shared” aspect of collaborative work, fundamentally changing how hierarchies are established in modern organizations. This shift represents a departure from traditional command-and-control structures towards more collaborative approaches.

The Therapeutic Turn in Leadership

“Nowadays we are almost talking about the leaders as some sort of therapist.”

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BONUS: A Coaching Masterclass – How Our Language Affects Our Leadership Style, And The Culture We Create, With Michelle Pauk and Victor Pena

In this BONUS episode, Victor Pena and Michelle Pauk dive deep into the power of language in shaping our work as leaders, Agile Coaches, and Scrum Masters. Together, we explore how the words we use influence relationships, decisions, and the success of Agile practices. From navigating the ambiguity of language to fostering effective communication, this episode provides actionable insights to help you thrive in a constantly changing workplace.

Language as a Culture Carrier

“Language is how we carry culture, but without clarity, it can lead to misalignment and conflict.”

Victor and Michelle discuss how language reflects and shapes workplace culture. Misaligned terminology—like “servant leader”—can create tension between teams and executives. They highlight the importance of achieving shared understanding and the role of language in fostering trust and collaboration.

“Start by asking what others mean by key words—it’s the first step toward alignment.”

Feedforward vs. Feedback

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CTO Series: The Red-Pen Apology, Tricia Broderick on Transformative Tech Leadership

In this CTO Series interview, we sit down with Tricia Broderick, a seasoned tech leader and co-author of Lead Without Blame. With over 25 years in software development leadership, Tricia shares her journey from an individual contributor to a transformative leader. The conversation touches on the challenges of giving up control, the importance of psychological safety, and how to foster resilient and empowered teams.

The Red-Pen Apology: A Leadership Awakening

“Leadership isn’t about doing everything yourself; it’s about empowering others to excel.”

Tricia reflects on a pivotal moment early in her career when she realized that her meticulous attention to detail was sending the wrong message to her team. She shares how this realization led to her “red-pen apology,” where she acknowledged her need to step up as a leader rather than continuing to act as an individual contributor. This was the beginning of her journey toward understanding the importance of giving up control to create a healthier, more scalable work environment.

Overcoming the Challenge of Letting Go

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