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BONUS: Why AI Changes Management, But Not Leadership – With Mateo Bervejillo

In this BONUS episode, we explore what AI changes for software leaders, and what it leaves firmly in human hands. Mateo Bervejillo, CEO of Xseed Solutions and author of Back to Basics, brings the view of a manager of managers: AI can help us process information faster, but leadership still happens through clarity, judgment, and relationships.

From Attorney to Software CEO: Clarity as a Leadership Skill

“What are we building? Why are we building it? What’s the benefit for the client? What’s the business value?”

Mateo started his career as an attorney, then moved through operations, vendor management, business development, and finally into software company leadership. That path gave him an unusual advantage in technology: an obsession with clear definitions.

In law, unclear scope creates risk. In software, unclear scope creates waste, frustration, and products that miss the point. For Mateo, leadership starts before execution, with crisp answers to simple questions: what problem are we solving, why does it matter, and what would success look like?

AI Removes Busywork, But It Does Not Replace Leadership

“There’s a part about management that is moving information around, up and down, sideways. That is changing drastically because of AI.” Continue reading BONUS: Why AI Changes Management, But Not Leadership – With Mateo Bervejillo

Carmela Then: Why the Best Product Owners Let Go of What They’re Best At

The Great Product Owner: The Humble Leader Who Served His Team

“He was there, he was present, he was serving the team.” – Carmela Then

Carmela worked with a Product Owner at a bank who embodied everything servant leadership should look like. This wasn’t a PO who lorded his business expertise over the team—instead, he brought cookies, cracked jokes, and made everyone feel valued regardless of their role. He knew the product landscape intimately and participated in every refinement session, yet remained approachable and coachable.

When team members came to him confused about stakeholder requests, he willingly stepped in as a mediator. Perhaps most impressively, he actively worked to break down the hierarchical mindset that often plagues traditional organizations. In the beginning, testers felt they couldn’t question the business analyst or Product Owner.

By the end, QA team members were confidently pointing out missing scenarios and use cases—and the PO would respond with genuine appreciation: “Oh yes! We missed it! Let’s prioritize that story for the next sprint.” This PO understood that his role wasn’t to have all the answers, but to create an environment where anyone could contribute their expertise. The result was a truly flat, collaborative Scrum team operating exactly as Scrum was designed to work.

Self-reflection Question: How accessible are you to your team, and do you create an environment where anyone—regardless of role—feels comfortable challenging your thinking?

The Bad Product Owner: When Expertise Becomes a Barrier to Collaboration

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“He knows everything himself, and everything is in his head. So nobody else knows what he has in his head.” – Carmela Then

Carmela describes a Product Owner who wasn’t a bad person—in fact, he was incredibly capable. He knew the business from front to back, understood the systems intimately from years of analyst work, and could even write pseudocode himself. The problem? His very competence became a barrier to team collaboration.

Because he knew so much, he struggled to articulate his ideas to others. Frustrated that developers couldn’t read his mind, he started writing the code himself and handing it to developers with instructions to simply implement it. The result was disengaged developers who had no understanding of the bigger picture, and a PO who was drowning in work that wasn’t his to do.

Carmela approached this with humility, asking what she calls “dumb questions” and requesting that he draw things on paper so she could understand. She made excuses about her “bad memory” to create documentation that could be shared with the whole team.

Over multiple Program Increments, she gently coached him to trust his team: “You are one person. Please let the team help you. The developers are great at what they do—if you share what you’re trying to achieve, they can write code that’s more efficient and easier to maintain.” Eventually, he learned to let go of the coding and focus on what only he could do: sharing his deep business knowledge.

Self-reflection Question: As a leader, what tasks are you holding onto that you should be delegating—and what is your reluctance costing your team?

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About Carmela Then

Carmela is a Senior Business Analyst with 15+ years in financial and mining sectors. A Certified and Advanced ScrumMaster, she excels in leading agile initiatives, delivering business value, and aligning technical outcomes with strategic goals.

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Carmela Then: When Remote Teams Stop Listening—The Silent Killer of Agile Collaboration

“Two minutes into it, my mind’s starting to wander and I started to do my own thing.” – Carmela Then

Carmela paints a vivid picture of a distributed team stretched across Sydney, New Zealand, India, and beyond—a team where communication had quietly become the enemy of progress. The warning signs were subtle at first: in meetings with 20 people on the call, only two or three would speak for the entire hour or two, with no visual aids, no PowerPoints, no drawings. The result? Within minutes, attention drifted, and everyone assumed someone else understood the message.

The speakers believed their ideas had landed; the listeners had already tuned out. This miscommunication compounded sprint after sprint until, just two months before go-live, the team was still discussing proof of concept. Trust eroded completely, and the Product Owner resorted to micromanagement—tracking developers by the hour, turning what was supposed to be an Agile team into a waterfall nightmare. Carmela points to a critical missing element: the Scrum Master had been assigned delivery management duties, leaving no one to address the communication dysfunction.

The lesson is clear—in remote, cross-cultural teams, you cannot simply talk your way through complex ideas; you need visual anchors, shared artifacts, and constant verification that understanding has truly been achieved.

In this segment, we talk about the importance of visual communication in remote teams and psychological safety.

Self-reflection Question: How do you verify that your message has truly landed with every team member, especially when working across time zones and cultures?

Featured Book of the Week: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Carmela recommends How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, a timeless classic that remains essential reading for every Scrum Master. As Carmela explains, “We work with people—customers are people, and our team, they are human beings as well. Whether we want it or not, we are leaders, we are coaches, and sometimes we could even be mentors.” Written during the Great Depression and predating software entirely, this book emphasizes that relationships and understanding people are the foundation of personal and professional success. Carmela was first introduced to the book by a successful person outside of work who advised her not just to read it once, but to revisit it every year. For Scrum Masters navigating team dynamics, stakeholder relationships, and the human side of Agile, Carnegie’s principles remain as relevant today as they were nearly a century ago.

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About Carmela Then

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Tom Molenaar: When Product Owners “Eat the Grass” for Their Teams

The Great Product Owner: The Vision Catalyst

“This PO had the ability to communicate the vision and enthusiasm about the product, even I felt inspired.”

Tom describes an exceptional Product Owner who could communicate vision and enthusiasm so effectively that even he, as the Scrum Master, felt inspired about the product. This PO excelled at engaging teams in product discovery techniques, helping them move from merely delivering features to taking outcome responsibility. The PO introduced validation techniques, brought customers directly to the office for interviews, and consistently showed the team the impact of their work, creating a strong connection between engineers and end users.

The Bad Product Owner: The Micromanager

“This PO was basically managing the team with micro-managing approach, this blocked the team from self-organizing.”

Tom encountered a Product Owner who was too controlling, essentially micromanaging the team instead of empowering them. This PO hosted daily stand-ups, assigned individual tasks, and didn’t give the team space for self-organization. When Tom investigated the underlying motivation, he discovered the PO believed that without tight control, the team would underperform. Tom helped the PO understand the benefits of trusting the team and worked with both sides to clarify roles and responsibilities, moving from micromanagement to empowerment.

In this segment, we refer to the book “Empowered” by Marty Cagan.

Self-reflection Question: How do you help Product Owners find the balance between providing clear direction and allowing team autonomy?

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About Tom Molenaar
Tom is a team coach with a background in social psychology and behavioral influence. He is passionate about fostering collaboration, and helping teams flourish and achieve their potential. His approach blends insight, empathy, and strategy to cultivate lasting team success.

You can link with Tom Molenaar on LinkedIn.

Mariano Gontchar: The Micromanagement Trap—When PO’s Good Intentions Harm Agile Team Performance

The Great Product Owner: The Visionary Leader

During an agile transformation project modernizing a build system with multiple stakeholders, Mariano worked with an exceptional Product Owner who demonstrated the power of clear vision and well-defined roadmaps. This visionary Product Owner successfully navigated complex stakeholder relationships by maintaining focus on the product vision while providing clear direction through structured roadmap planning, enabling the team to deliver meaningful results in a challenging environment.

The Bad Product Owner: The Task-Manager Micromanager

Mariano encountered a well-intentioned Product Owner who fell into the task-manager anti-pattern, becoming overly detail-oriented and controlling. This Product Owner provided extremely detailed story descriptions and even specified who should do what tasks instead of explaining why work was needed. This approach turned the team into mere task-handlers with no space to contribute their expertise, ultimately reducing both engagement and effectiveness despite the Product Owner’s good intentions.

Self-reflection Question: Are you empowering your team to contribute their expertise, or are you inadvertently turning them into task-handlers through over-specification?

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About Mariano Gontchar

Mariano is a Madrid-based Scrum Master with a unique multi-perspective journey through Agile roles. Having evolved from developer to Product Owner, Project Manager, and now Scrum Master, he brings comprehensive insights to team facilitation and backlog management. Mariano specializes in practical Agile adoption strategies that work in real-world environments.

You can link with Mariano Gontchar on LinkedIn.