In this BONUS episode, we explore the transformative power of handwritten letters with author Amy Daughters. In her book, Dear Dana, Amy shares her remarkable journey of reconnecting with hundreds of people through the lost art of letter writing and reveals how leaders can use this simple yet profound tool to build deeper connections, foster engagement, and create lasting impact in their organizations.
The Genesis of a Letter-Writing Mission
“I was minding my own business, just doing my thing, and I get on Facebook one day in 2014, very innocently, like we all do, and I had a memory of a friend that I’d worked with at a summer camp here in Texas 35 years ago.”
Amy’s journey began with a simple Facebook search for an old camp friend named Dana. After reconnecting online, Amy discovered that Dana’s young son was battling cancer. Initially just following their story from a distance, Amy felt compelled to start sending handwritten letters to Dana and her son during their hospital stays. When Dana’s son tragically passed away at age 15, Amy continued writing to Dana, sending letters to her husband’s law office despite feeling it might be irrational. Five months later, she received a ten-page handwritten response from Dana, sparking a two-year correspondence that changed both of their lives. This powerful connection ultimately inspired Amy to write letters to all 580 of her Facebook friends in a remarkable social experiment that transformed her perspective on human relationships.
The Power of Human Connection
“We were relating to each other as simple human beings. I didn’t know how she voted, she didn’t know how I voted… I didn’t know what her religious views were. I didn’t know what she thought about any kind of social issues.”
What began as a simple act of kindness evolved into a profound lesson in human connection. Amy describes how her letter-writing created a unique space where people could connect authentically without the filters and divisions of social media or modern digital communication. The letters fostered relationships based purely on shared humanity rather than political views, religious beliefs, or social stances. This experiment changed Amy herself as much as it impacted recipients, giving her a deeper appreciation for the unique individuals in her life and helping her see beyond labels to the person beneath. For leaders, this highlights how communication tools that prioritize personal connection can transcend workplace divisions and build genuine relationships.
Creating Lasting Impact with Handwritten Notes
“When someone receives a handwritten item from you, I’m going to immediately realize that you took the time and the effort. And the higher up on the food chain you are, it’s even better to do this for me.” Continue reading BONUS: The Power of Handwritten Letters for Leaders With Amy Daughters
