“They started to separate and call each other out, which is definitely not Agile.” – Joshua McDonald
Joshua shares the story of a 17-person distributed team spread across time zones, cultures, and communication styles. Some team members were direct and ready to challenge problems in public. Others preferred quieter, one-on-one conversations.
Over time, those differences created a blame environment where people stopped asking for help and started hiding problems. Long-running work was closed and replaced with follow-up stories, then part two, then part three, until the real issue disappeared under Jira housekeeping.
The result was not better flow, but delayed learning, missed upskilling opportunities, and a stressful team environment where quieter people stopped speaking in standups and retrospectives. Joshua explains what he would do differently now: split the team by communication patterns, listen to what each group needs, act as a mediator, and only bring the whole group together once people feel heard.
In this segment, we talk about different communication styles.
Self-reflection Question: What signals tell you that people are hiding problems because the team environment does not feel safe enough?
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Joshua recommends Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi because it reframed networking as a relationship practice, not a transaction. The book helped him see that staying connected with people creates learning, support, and a safety net over time.
He also mentions the Bible as a daily source for reflecting on respect, peace, and conflict resolution, especially because Scrum Masters often need more than process knowledge to help teams work well together. For Joshua, both recommendations point to the same deeper idea: our work improves when we treat relationships as something to maintain before we urgently need them.
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About Joshua McDonald
Joshua is endlessly curious about better ways of working. He helps teams grow by blending experimentation, creativity, and AI with practical coaching. When a meeting feels routine, he’s already testing a new approach to make it more valuable. Energetic and inventive, he turns everyday collaboration into opportunities for team growth.
You can link with Joshua McDonald on LinkedIn.
Elly is an Agile Coach at a major e-commerce company. Previously in user research (and a royal food historian). She aims to 1) improve the experience of work through reducing mental load, improving communication and forming strong teams 2) shift the focus from managing the worker to managing the work by focusing on flow and waste.