Junaid Shaikh: Product Owner Anti-Patterns, From Team Owner to Product Owner, And The PO Who Got It Right

The Great Product Owner: Building Impactful Relationships That Get Things Done

The best PO Junaid has worked with had four qualities: clear, concise communication; an open mindset willing to be coached; courage to say “no” when needed; and the discipline to define the “what” and leave the “how” to the team. This PO started with five sources of truth — Excel tabs, whiteboards, JIRA, and other tools. When Junaid pointed out that five sources of truth is the opposite of transparency (one of Scrum’s three pillars), the PO asked for help. Junaid’s response: “I can’t do the push-ups for you.” Together, they consolidated everything into one tool. The team was happier, and the PO managed the backlog much better.

The key lesson: great product owners trust their team, communicate clearly, prioritize ruthlessly, and have the courage to say no. And they don’t try to own the team.

The Bad Product Owner: Unclear Decision Rights

Junaid opens with a line that cuts straight to the most common PO anti-pattern: “You are the product owner, not the team owner.” When he sees a PO slipping into command-and-control mode, he asks them one question: “What is your role?” They say “Product Owner.” He says: “Exactly. You own the product, not the team. If you were meant to own the team, we’d call you a project manager.”

The worst case he witnessed: a PO who was so possessive of “his” team that he required approval on everything — processes, tools, even holiday requests. In sprint planning, he would assign stories to individual team members (“Mr. X, you take this one”). He’d estimate the work himself, and when developers pushed back, he’d override them: “I was a developer, I know how long this takes.”

For approaching PO anti-patterns, Junaid has a deliberate style: he doesn’t confront upfront. He observes, takes notes, and starts by solving a smaller impediment to demonstrate he’s there to help. Once trust is built, he brings in coaching tools — first teaching the basics (“this is what the PO role is in Scrum”), then gradually coaching on specific anti-patterns observed in practice. He targets 10-15% improvement at a time. Six months later, you’ve already achieved 30-40% improvement.

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About Junaid Shaikh

Junaid ShaikhJunaid Shaikh is an energetic Agile Coach with a natural flair for Agile and Scrum, shaped by recent experiences at software giants like Ericsson and hardware leaders ABB. In his work, he champions collaboration, curiosity, and continuous improvement. Beyond coaching, he brings the same passion to cricket, table tennis, carrom, and his newest sporting obsession — padel. You can link with Junaid Shaikh on LinkedIn.

BONUS: Why Leaders Who Chase Certainty Will Become AI’s Biggest Bottleneck

What happens when the leaders we trust to guide transformation become the bottleneck slowing it down? In this episode, Monica Marquez—with 25+ years in people transformation at Goldman Sachs, Google, and beyond—reveals why the old equation of effort equals success is breaking down, and what leaders must unlearn to thrive in the age of AI.

The Leadership Crisis Nobody Trained You For

“No one ever really teaches you what it really takes to be a leader. You know what you do really well, but how do you help other people do that too? That’s when I realized it comes down to becoming a really good leader.”

Monica’s origin story captures a universal struggle: being promoted for technical excellence, then discovering that leading people requires completely different skills. She spent her career at organizations like Goldman Sachs, Bank of America, Ernst & Young, and Google realizing that systems weren’t built for everyone—and that the real work of leadership is redesigning those systems to unlock human potential. Today, through her company Flipwork, she helps leaders and teams become what she calls “agentic humans”—people who leverage AI to get ahead rather than getting left behind.

The Command and Control Trap

“Most leadership development still rewards the command and control archetype. The person who has all the answers, the decisive hero. But AI moves so fast that when you think you’ve fixed something, it changes the next day. Leaders are starting to become bottlenecks.” Continue reading BONUS: Why Leaders Who Chase Certainty Will Become AI’s Biggest Bottleneck

Simina Fodor: Why the ‘Why’ Matters—Product Owner Communication Lessons

The Great Product Owner: Transparency and Customer Focus

This exemplary Product Owner shaped Simina’s entire view of product management and even inspired her to consider a future transition to that role. Despite not having a traditional product background (coming instead from support), this PO demonstrated exceptional openness to both giving and receiving feedback. They consistently explained the logic behind decisions, sharing the “why” that motivated their priorities. What truly set them apart was bringing customer perspectives and use cases directly to the team, helping developers understand the features through the lens of personas and user scenarios. The PO’s transparency extended to their own professional journey, openly sharing how they grew into the role, which created an atmosphere of continuous learning and development.

The Bad Product Owner: The Ghost Commander

This experienced Product Owner approached the role with a command-and-control mindset carried over from previous Project Management experience, believing that backlog grooming was “beneath them.” Essentially a ghost to the team, they avoided retrospectives while issuing constantly shifting priorities with little explanation or logic. The PO would issue commands and demand immediate responses without considering consequences, creating a toxic environment that threatened to destroy team morale. Simina recommends coaching such Product Owners on agile mindset principles and seeking leadership support when necessary to prevent team deterioration.

Self-reflection Question: How can you effectively bridge the gap between command-and-control Product Owners and teams seeking more transparency and collaboration?

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About Simina Fodor

Simina is a career rebel with a passion for bold moves. From HR to Agile delivery, she’s ditched the rulebook to inspire others to build careers that ignite passion. No apologies, no detours—just fearless pivots and real talk about creating work that truly fires you up.

You can link with Simina Fodor on LinkedIn.

Andrew Mitchell: From Command and Control to Shared Leadership, a Project Manager’s transition to the Scrum Master role

In this episode, Andrew shares his experience as a new Scrum Master and the mistake he made by trying to replicate a command and control leadership style. The team was demotivated and lacked trust, and Andrew initially felt the need to have all the answers despite his limited experience. However, he learned the importance of admitting mistakes and building trust with the team. He also discusses the transition from project manager to Scrum Master, emphasizing the need to let go of control and embrace shared leadership. Lastly, he advises embracing silence to foster deeper thinking and collaboration.

The inspiring story of how a failing hospital turned things around with Agile and Lean

Recovering from failure, or difficult moments is a critical skill for Scrum Masters. Not only because of us, but also because the teams, and stakeholders we work with will also face these moments! We need inspiring stories to help them, and ourselves! The Bungsu Story, is an inspiring story by Marcus Hammarberg which shows how a Coach can help organizations recover even from the most disastrous situations! Learn how Marcus helped The Bungsu, a hospital in Indonesia, recover from near-bankruptcy, twice! Using Lean and Agile methods to rebuild an organization and a team! An inspiring story you need to know about! Buy the book on Amazon: The Bungsu Story – How Lean and Kanban Saved a Small Hospital in Indonesia. Twice. and Can Help You Reshape Work in Your Company.

About Andrew Mitchell

Andrew prioritizes people when building products, aiming for happy and engaged employees who create great products and serve customers well. He emphasizes trust, psychological safety, servant leadership, and believes Scrum is the best framework to achieve these goals.

He was also a host of the Product Owner Summit 2023, where we collaborated.

You can link with Andrew Mitchell on LinkedIn.

Rayyan Karim: From Command and Control to Agile, a difficult transition for a delivery manager

In this episode, Rayyan shares his experience of working with a team at a consulting firm who were using a project management approach with a command and control style. Despite being able to deliver in just 10 days, there was a “delivery manager” who was hindering the team by trying to dictate their actions and decisions. Rayyan shares how he had to focus on “man-marking” the delivery manager and helping them understand the change of identity required in an Agile environment. Rayyan emphasizes the importance of training and not being afraid of disagreement when implementing Agile.

In this episode, we refer to Statistical Process Control, and Shewart’s work on that topic.

The inspiring story of how a failing hospital turned things around with Agile and Lean

Recovering from failure, or difficult moments is a critical skill for Scrum Masters. Not only because of us, but also because the teams, and stakeholders we work with will also face these moments! We need inspiring stories to help them, and ourselves! The Bungsu Story, is an inspiring story by Marcus Hammarberg which shows how a Coach can help organizations recover even from the most disastrous situations! Learn how Marcus helped The Bungsu, a hospital in Indonesia, recover from near-bankruptcy, twice! Using Lean and Agile methods to rebuild an organization and a team! An inspiring story you need to know about! Buy the book on Amazon: The Bungsu Story – How Lean and Kanban Saved a Small Hospital in Indonesia. Twice. and Can Help You Reshape Work in Your Company.

About Rayyan Karim

Rayyan is and Agile Coach & Trainer and the founder of Design Your Future with presence in the UK and the UAE. Rayyan is known for supporting leading executives of FTSE100 and NASDAQ corporations to create transformational results quickly.

You can link with Rayyan Karim on LinkedIn and connect with Rayyan Karim on Twitter.

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