“Sometimes the best thing a Scrum Master can give the team isn’t the answer. It’s a question.” – Arun Parameswaran
Arun describes a team pattern many Scrum Masters recognize: stakeholders bypassing the Product Owner and going straight to developers with new requests after the sprint had already started. The developers wanted to help, so they accepted the interruptions.
The result was context switching, broken priorities, and a quiet loss of focus. Arun worked with the customer team, Product Owner, and developers to create a simple agreement: new work had to come through the PO, be clarified, and be prioritized before it reached the team. That agreement gave developers permission to protect the sprint without turning every conversation into a personal conflict.
Arun also shares how he handled the classic misunderstanding that “being Agile” means accepting every change immediately. For him, adaptability still needs timing, clarity, and shared agreements.
In this segment, we talk about the coaching stance and how Scrum Masters can use questions to help teams think together.
Self-reflection Question: What agreement would help your team protect focus without shutting stakeholders out?
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Arun recommends Coaching Agile Teams by Lyssa Adkins because it helped him move beyond ceremony facilitation. The book gave him a clearer picture of the Scrum Master as a coach for individuals, the team, and the wider organization. One question stayed with him: am I solving the problem for the team, or helping the team learn to solve it themselves?
That shift changed how Arun worked. Instead of telling teams what to do, he began asking questions such as “What do you think is causing this?”, “What options do we have?”, and “What are we not seeing?” For Arun, the book is a practical reminder that coaching is not about leading people to your answer. It is about helping people think.
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About Arun Parameswaran
Arun is an Agile delivery leader at Bosch Global Software Technologies who builds high-performing, data-driven ecosystems. He blends flow metrics, Jira analytics, Power BI, and applied AI to turn delivery into a transparent, predictable system.
You can link with Arun Parameswaran on LinkedIn.
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