“No team is interested in deliberately destroying their outcome or their team. Nobody does that on purpose.” – Wasim Osman
Wasim’s team was building a SaaS product with real potential. They followed Scrum, shipped features fast—and quietly let the bugs pile up. When customers finally pushed back (“you built five features, four of them have bugs”), the team made a confident bet: one quarter for new features, then one month to fix everything. It didn’t work.
The bug-bashing month revealed deeper, structural problems that demanded refactoring, and the roadmap was already packed. Then the fixes got handed to a single team, who felt demoted from the “prestigious” work of building features. Resentment grew between the teams.
At the height of that tension, the company was acquired by a waterfall-driven parent company. The head of engineering left, the chief architect and two senior engineers followed, and it became chaos. Wasim’s hardest lesson wasn’t about the acquisition—it was about voice.
The engineers assumed waterfall was being forced on them and stopped pushing back; leadership assumed the engineers were fine with it. Nobody said what they actually thought, and the fear became reality. As Wasim puts it, there was “no captain on the ship.”
In this segment, we talk about how even conversations need to be iterative, and how a Scrum Master has to balance speaking up (so the team isn’t rudderless) without speaking so much that the team stops voicing their own opinions.
Self-reflection Question: Where on your team is an unspoken assumption quietly hardening into reality, and what would it take for you to name it out loud first?
Featured Book of the Week: Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen
Wasim’s most-recommended book is Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. What stuck with him is a deceptively simple model: every hard conversation is really made of three conversations—the “what happened” conversation (the content), the feelings conversation, and the identity conversation (what the situation says about whether you’re competent, good, or lovable). “When I first read it, I thought there can’t be only three types of conversations,” Wasim admits.
“But once you’ve gone through the book, you can put any conversation into one of those funnels.” He found it especially powerful in retrospectives: when the same issue keeps resurfacing, the real conversation is often about feelings, not action items—someone was never okay with an earlier decision, and that’s why the follow-ups never happened.
Self-reflection Question: In your last tense retrospective, which of the three conversations—content, feelings, or identity—was really driving the room?
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About Wasim Osman
Wasim Osman is a seasoned Agile Coach and a Product Owner at Orkestra SCS. He launched his agile career at a Silicon Valley startup based in New York, then spent years coaching teams across Canada, helping organizations transform how they deliver value. Wasim brings a rare blend of agile discipline and product thinking. He’s passionate about building technology that drives real business impact.
You can link with Wasim Osman on LinkedIn.
