“I was proud of this team—I helped form them from the start, we traveled to the client together, they were mature and independent, they even jelled outside the workplace. This was my dream team.” – Natalia Curusi
Natalia had built something special. The team was technically strong, emotionally connected, and highly productive. They socialized outside work, traveled together to client sites, and operated with remarkable independence. But when a new junior developer joined, everything started to unravel.
The existing team members were like heroes—fast, skilled, confident. The newcomer couldn’t keep pace, and slowly Natalia noticed something disturbing: the team started making fun of the new member during retrospectives and stand-ups. The person became an outlier, a black swan ignored by the group. Natalia conducted one-on-one meetings with both the new member and the team, but the situation only worsened. The new person insisted they were fine and didn’t need help. The team members claimed they were just joking around. Meanwhile, the team structure and morale deteriorated.
Natalia realized she was watching her dream team self-destruct through a form of bullying—something she hadn’t even recognized at the time. Finally, she understood she couldn’t handle this alone and escalated to the head of discipline and the organizational psychologist. Together, they decided to rotate the person to another team where they felt more comfortable. Natalia learned a painful lesson: as Scrum Masters, we don’t need to solve everything ourselves, and sometimes the best solution is recognizing when to use the support structure around us rather than treating it as a personal failure.
Self-reflection Question: When have you witnessed subtle forms of exclusion in your team, and did you recognize them early enough to intervene effectively?
Featured Book of the Week: Coaching Agile Teams by Lyssa Adkins
“This was the first book about agile coaching that I read, and it’s how I understood that I was already playing the scrum master role without even knowing it—I understood that I was already acting like a glue for the team.” – Natalia Curusi
Natalia discovered Coaching Agile Teams at a pivotal moment in her career. The book revealed something profound: if you’re irreplaceable, there’s a problem. A great Scrum Master or coach makes themselves obsolete by growing team members who can replace them. The team should be able to perform independently when you’re on vacation or move to another assignment. Lyssa Adkins showed Natalia that she needed to let go of over-control and over-responsibility, focusing instead on growing the team’s capabilities. The book remains one of Natalia’s top recommendations for every junior Scrum Master wanting to embrace the role, alongside Training from the Back of the Room, which teaches facilitators how to run interactive workshops where people learn from each other rather than just listening to slides.
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About Natalia Curusi
With over 20 years in software delivery, Natalia Curusi is an expert in Agile Transformations, Delivery Optimisation, and Systems Thinking. As an Agile Coach at Endava, she leads Asia Pacific initiatives, driving business agility and continuous improvement while mentoring teams to build customer-centric, high-performing, and collaborative cultures.
You can link with Natalia Curusi on LinkedIn.
